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Like it, or hate it, Social Media plays a serious role in our lives. 

A  2010 Australian Psychological Society survey, shows that 97% of 18-30 year olds actively use Social Media.

But it’s not just young adults. 81% of people aged between 31-50 use Social Media. Of these, 51% log on several times a day, 30% spend over two hours a day on these sites and 2!% have formed a romantic relationship with someone they have met on a social networking site.

Older adults are also not immune with 64% actively using Social Media.

Social Media usage is pervasive. But how is it impacting real-life relationships? Is it enhancing or undermining our connectedness to real human beings?

Is Social Media good, bad or downright ugly?

To help us navigate this newest of modern media, I have invited Dr Adam Fraser to be our keynote speaker on Shavuot. Dr Fraser is a psychologist, researcher, well-known media personality and author. He is most notably known for his “The Third Space” and “Sugar Daddy”.

Most importantly, he is one of Australia’s most sought-after speakers. He has worked with  a wide spectrum of people including elite athletes, Special Forces soldiers and CEO’s of billion dollar companies.  A charismatic orator, Dr Fraser offers practical advice on Social Media: how to maximise its positive impact on relationships and minimise any fallout. Audiences regularly describe Adam as dynamic, funny and highly practical. According to a university study, his keynote addresses improve behaviour by 41%!

The issue of cyber-crime generally, and sexual predators in particular, is an area of serious worry for us all. Melissa Sevil of the Australian Federal Police’s High Tech Crime Operations, a dynamic speaker, has agreed to join us and will address “Staying Safe Online”.

Of particular concern to the Jewish community is the use of Social Media as a hate tool. AIJAC policy analyst, Daniel Meyerowitz-Katz, will speak on the prevalence of anti-semitism on the internet.

Finally, I will give the Jewish Perspective on the internet and social media. How does Torah view the internet? Should we abandon it or should we embrace it? Judaism has very specific  views on personal space, invasion of privacy and lashon hara - how are these affected by the internet and is there any way around them?

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Following “FaceBook or in Your Face”, I have invited Zionist Federation of Australia President and Immediate Past President of the Executive Council of Australian Jewry, Dr Danny Lamm, to present on another topic of great current interest: "The New Anti-Semites? Fraser, Carr & Co.” 

Are these politicians an aberration or do they signify a shift in feeling towards Jews in Australia and across the world? We expect robust debate around this topic and invite your participation.

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And for those who are ready to remain awake a little longer, there will be a fascinating textual shiur: Secrets in Stone: Lessons and Inspirations from the Tablets of Stone.

All in all, it promises to be a fascinating evening. So please join us on Tuesday evening, June 3rd. Forum commences 8:15pm sharp. Please arrive by 8:00pm so we can commence without delay.

On behalf of the Rebbetzin and all of us at South Head, best wishes for a Good & Peaceful Shabbos.

Rabbi Benzion Milecki OAM


Calling the Shots
Major-General Yossi Ben Hanan


The ignorance of those who question the Rebbe's love and dedication to Israel never ceases to amaze me. With this in mind, the Rebbetzin and I dedicated this week's My Story in honour of our family. Here is what Major-General Yossi Ben Hanan said of the Rebbe:

"There is no doubt in my mind that the Rebbe understood the "art of war". He was well versed in military history, in strategy, warfare, and he could express his opinion decisively on strategic issues at all levels. All the leaders of the State of Israel - all of them - came to him as students before their teacher.." Click here for the full story.
                                                                            ~ RBZ

 



Yom Yerushalayim
G-d is With Me - I Shall Not Fear

Jerusalem is known as Talpiot - literally the Mount of Mouths. It is the mountain towards which all mouths are directed.

As we read in this week's parasha - Bamidbar - the Jews were encamped in concentric circles. In the outer circle were the Twelve Tribes of Israel, further in were the Families of Levites, still closer were the Kohanim, then came the Temple, and at the very epicentre was the Holy of Holies containing the Ark of the Covenant.

Similarly, wherever Jews live in the world they turn towards Israel, when in Israel they turn towards Jerusalem, when in Jerusalem they turn towards the Temple Mount, and when on the Temple Mount, they turn towards the Holy of Holies. The Holy of Holies contains the Even HaShetiya - the Foundation Rock - "from which the Universe was hewed".

Forty-seven years ago, on the 28th of Iyar, we regained possession of the Temple Mount, the Holy of Holies and the Even HaShetiya - for the first time in almost two thousand years.

It was an event which struck a chord at the heart of every Jew. Not because it was a military, political or even national victory - but because it was a homec
oming - a homecoming of the Jewish People to its very source, and a homecoming of the Temple to those who have been chosen by G-d to be its guardians: we the Jewish People, "a nation of priests and a holy nation".


Let us express thanksgiving and joy on this day, "This is the Day that G-d has made, we shall sing and celebrate on it" Let us resolve to never, ever let go of the greatest gift that G-d has bestowed upon us. Yes, there are countless pressures upon us and upon our leaders. By returning the Temple Mount to us, G-d has demonstrated that He is with us. So let us declare, in the words of the Hallel,
"G-d is with me, I shall not fear what a mere human (threatens) to do to me." 

On behalf of the Rebbetzin and all of us at South Head, best wishes for a Good Shabbos and Yom Yerushalayim on Wednesday.


Rabbi Benzion Milecki OAM


Brookie Reports


Hey everyone!

We're all really looking forward to seeing Shule filled with children this Shabbos morning for Bless the Kids. We'll be making edible bonfires in honour of Lag B'Omer so don't miss out!  Most especially don't miss out on receiving a blessing and special treat from the Rabbi. Make sure you're in Shule by 10.15!

 

Celebrate Shavuot with us! We have a roving Puppeteria and soccer tournaments plus you'll get to make your very own edible ice-cream Mt Sinai! But make sure you're in time to hear the reading of the Ten Commandments first at 10.15 sharp. That's First Day Wednesday June 4th.

 

Mummy & Me  grows and grows with more families joining us each Term. Contact me to be part of the warmest early Jewish learning program for your child (or grandchild).  

Looking forward to seeing you in Shule and wishing you a Good Shabbos.

Brookie & the Youth Crew

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Camp Shalom registration is open! Please visit our homepage

 


Parasha Sheet
Bamidbar

Q. Why was it necessary to take a census of the Jewish people? Surely Hashem should have known how many Jews there were in the Jewish nation!

A. Our Sages tell us that Hashem loves the Jewish people dearly and therefore He counts the Jewish nation all the time. It is like a rich man counting his gold; Hashem continually counts what is dearest to Him - the Jewish people.

Additionally, a census focuses on something that is particularly relevant regarding the Jewish people: their essential equality. For when Hashem commands that a census be taken, every Jew is counted equally. Those with the highest potentials and those on the lowest levels, are all regarded as equals. No one is given greater priority and no one is considered more important or greater than anyone else.

Furthermore, every Jew has a spark of G-dliness, a Neshama, inside of him. The Neshama is the essence of our being. At this level, we are all equal. Therefore, when taking a census, every one of us is counted equally.

Our Sages tells us that a census has been taken nine times in Jewish history. The tenth and final census will be taken at the time of the coming of Moshiach, at which time the Neshamot of every single Jew will flourish. Then we will be able to bring out the inner G-dly potential in every aspect of our lives.

To learn all about the Parasha, download our Parasha sheet! 

Please share our Parasha sheet around your Shabbat table and let your family and friends explore the Parasha of the week together with you.


Durable, Diverse & Detailed
After Kiddush Shabbat Shiur

Join us in the Herbert Hall after Kiddush and discover three ways Judaism thrives.

This Week
Erev Shabbos, May 23: 38th Day Omer (Iyyar 23)
6:45a Shacharis
9:19a Latest Shema
4:40p Candle Lighting
5:00p Mincha
5:45p Kabbalat Shabbat
Tonight's Sefirah Count Is: היום תשעה ושלשים יום שהם חמשה שבועות וארבעה ימים לעמר

Shabbos, May 24: Shabbos Mevarchim, 39th Day Omer, Bamidbar (Iyyar 24)
8:40a Shacharis
10:15a Bless the Kids Shabbat
4:40p Mincha
5:37p Havdalah
Tonight's Sefirah Count Is: היום ארבעים יום שהם חמשה שבועות וחמשה ימים לעמר

Sunday, May 25: 40th Day Omer (Iyyar 25)
8:00a Shacharis
9:19a Latest Shema
5:00p Mincha
5:24p Earliest Shema
Tonight's Sefirah Count Is: היום אחד וארבעים יום שהם חמשה שבועות וששה ימים לעמר

Monday, May 26: 41st Day Omer (Iyyar 26)
6:45a Shacharis
9:20a Latest Shema
5:00p Mincha
5:24p Earliest Shema
Tonight's Sefirah Count Is: היום שנים וארבעים יום שהם ששה שבועות לעמר

Tuesday, May 27: 42nd Day Omer (Iyyar 27)
6:45a Shacharis
9:20a Latest Shema
5:00p Mincha
5:23p Earliest Shema
Tonight's Sefirah Count Is: היום שלשה וארבעים יום שהם ששה שבועות ויום אחד לעמר

Wednesday, May 28: Yom Yerushalayim, 43rd Day Omer (Iyyar 28)
6:45a Shacharis
9:20a Latest Shema
4:55p Mincha
Tonight's Sefirah Count Is: היום ארבעה וארבעים יום שהם ששה שבועות ושני ימים לעמר

Thursday, May 29: 44th Day Omer (Iyyar 29)
6:45a Shacharis
9:21a Latest Shema
5:00p Mincha
5:23p Earliest Shema
Tonight's Sefirah Count Is: היום חמשה וארבעים יום שהם ששה שבועות ושלשה ימים לעמר

Erev Shabbos, May 30: Rosh Chodesh Sivan, 45th Day Omer (Sivan 1)
6:30a Shacharis
9:21a Latest Shema
4:37p Candle Lighting
4:55p Mincha
5:45p Kabbalat Shabbat
Tonight's Sefirah Count Is: היום ששה וארבעים יום שהם ששה שבועות וארבעה ימים לעמר

 
Mazeltovs /
Announcements

Mazal Tov to Garron & Samantha Kavonic on birth of Dan Ari on 26-Apr / 27 Nisan; to grandparents Kevin & Glenda Kavonic and Vincent & Myrna Airey; and to great grandparents Alex & Sheila Kavonic.

Mazal Tov to Dr Mark & Rochelle Eisenberg on birth of grandson Akiva Meir; to parents Rabbi Daniel & Michelle Eisenberg; grandparents Barry & Leonora Abeshouse and great grandmother Tabley Abeshouse.

Mazal Tov to Sol & Hannah Simons and Mark Braham on the recent birth of a great grandson, born to Rabbi Mendel & Raychey Simons in USA; and also to the Goodman family.
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Condolences to Albert Epstein, Ariella and Adam & their families on the passing of their wife and mother, Angela Epstein ע׳ה on May 19th; and to sisters Kitty Enoch and Rosalie Isman together with their families. Minyanim continue at the family home 7pm Saturday evening, and Sunday afternoon at 4-45pm

Condolences to Yael Shudnow and family on the passing of her mother, Rachel Musleah ע׳ה
Minyanim continue Saturday 5.40pm and Tuesday 4.40pm at Sephardi Shul.

Condolences to Condolences to Dee Aronson, Nick Aronson, Natanya Milner and their families on the passing of their father and grandfather, Sol Krasnostein ע׳ה on May 15th in Perth.

The Consecration of the tombstone erected in loving memory of the late Mr Harold Gerber ע׳ה will take place at Macquarie Park Cemetery on Sunday May 25th from 11am

Happy Jewish Birthday to...
Friday
Adam Goldberg
Benjamin Finger
Brian Levinstein
David Wine
Esther Shagrin
Glenn Miller
Irma Levett
Lisa Mirels

Shabbos
Benjamin Shacknofsky
Danielle Marmot
Hilary Albert
Meryl Plaut
Michael Wunsh

Sunday
Ilana Klein
Jonathan Benjamin

Monday
David Simmons
Marissa Mallach
Oliver Freedman
Tom Wiesner

Tuesday
Doron Lavan
Gary Mezei
Jodi Wainstein
Simeon Grossman

Wednesday
Aliyah Ray
Annette Fialkov
Daniel Tracton
Daniel Wiesner
Gilda Hardy
Nicola Lonstein

Thursday
Akiva Gluck
Aron Kleinlehrer
Charmian Berman
Gracie Shabtay
Neil Bowman
We wish "long life" to...

Friday
Lilian Deitz for grandmother Leiba Gordon
Roland Nagel for aunty Irene Weiss

Shabbos
Allan Marmot for grandmother Dora Marmot
Barbara Krost for mother Golda Arona Jacks
Fred Sarif for father Theodore Brandt
Henri Bader for first wife Blossom Bader
Lorna Sarif for father-in-law- Theodore Brandt
Paul Marmot for grandmother Dora Marmot
Rachel Wahlhaus for mother Golda Lourie

Sunday
Annette Sarif for mother Bessie Russon
Errol Weinberg for mother Fanny Weinberg
Geoffrey Levy for father Julius Levy
Rena Kofsky for father Ralph Rose
Rose Levy for husband Julius Levy

Monday
Bernice Finkelstein for brother Abram Hersh Pencharz
Cheryl Camberg for aunty Sophie Berman
Frank Solsky for father Louis Solsky

Tuesday
Daniel Tracton for father Bobby Tracton
Gloria Levy for father Phillip Lieberman
Robert Gardos for grandmother Frieda Regina Lindner
Ruth Gardos for mother Frieda Regina Lindner

Wednesday
Besim Ben Nissan for mother Fortune Ben Nissan
Clive Wasserman for brother Gary Martin Wasserman
Hyman Gamerov for mother Molly Gamerov
Lionel Katz for mother Lena Katz
Sharon Naumburger for father Avrom Sandler
Yvonne Hochroth for father Les Lazarovits

Thursday
Beverley Michaelis for mother-in-law Marian Michaelis
Nicola Silverman for mother Mary Martha Slome
Tony Rubenstein for mother Heather Ann Rubenstein

 


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