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Aliyah: My First Hundred Days

24/05/2013 11:27:03 AM

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Les Kraus, who recently made Aliya with his family, will speak this Friday night on: Aliya: My First Hundred Days! Kabbalat Shabbat 5:45pm.

Shavuot at South Head
Food for the Body, Food for the Soul, Food for the Kids!


Shavuot at South Head was a huge success due to the efforts of many people.

The Ladies Guild and their assistants professionally prepared and presented a delicious Shavuot Meal: thank you Bernice Charif, Marianne Stern, Gail Bachmann and Barbara Mann.

Our Youth Director, Brookie, did an outstanding job of bringing to Shul not only children but their parents too, resulting in an attendance of over 700 on First Day Shavuot.

Hanoch Teller was a great success. Their was an impressive audience of well over 200 at the movie and his talks over Shavuot were humerous, entertaining, and inspiring.

Rabbi Benji Levy, Moriah's new Dean of Jewish Life and Learning, made a great impression and touched people with his inspired dissertation on the need to ensure continued Jewish education so that we not become a "Kodak moment". 

As I wrote last week, our Shavout Learning and Discussion evening was a huge success and boasted a record attendance of 300 people. Judging by the responses and feedback, it seems that everyone left far more knowledgeable, and better equipped, than when they came. 

In view of the seriousness of the matter we brought together a panel of experts to create awareness and to suggest strategies for both the prevention and reporting of this terrible crime. The success of the evening would not have been possible without the time, energy and commitment of the speakers. A very special thank you to Norman Rosenbaum for leaving his family and coming to join us all the way from Melbourne. It was a discussion with Norman several months ago that inspired me to dedicate Shavuot to this painful but most important subject. 

And thank you Amanda Gordon, Superintendent Michael Fitzgerald, Rabbi Mendel Kastel, Pam Swinfield, John Hamey, Deborah Blackman and Joshua Levi. Each speaker brought a unique perspective and added value to the evening.

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I am incorporating here my brief introductory remarks to the Panel Discussion:

Child Sex Abuse is a crime that affects one in three boys and one in six girls in the general community. We don't have statistics for the Jewish community, and of course we hope it's less, but there is certainly no reason to be complacent. Generally speaking it has been shown that child sex abuse crosses social economic, racial and cultural divides.

The impact of abuse often leads to a life-time of mental health issues, drug and alcohol abuse, crime and prostitution.

Why Shavuot?

The Midrash tells us that Beneinu Areivim b'adeinu - our children are the guarantors of the Jewish tradition. Or to quote Golda Meir - "Who is Jewish? One whose grandchildren are Jewish". But it is our responsibility to guarantee the safety of those guarantors!

But it goes beyond that - Torah is a religion that is based on the tradition of those who come before us.

If those previous generations prove to be corrupt, our entire tradition is undermined. Indeed studies have demonstrated that the prime cause of attrition from Judaism is when children hear disparaging remarks in their homes about their teachers and rabbis. Certainly a reason why parents should be careful about what they say in their children's presence.

But if there is to be concern for comments about leaders that are untrue, imagine the impact on children when the remarks are true! When they realise that those whom they trusted to hand them the Torah either perpetrated these vile things, or allowed them to continue!

There are those who have kept things in-house because they feared for the negative impact on the institutions. The reality is of course the opposite. The cover-up causes the most negative impact of all.

Let me therefore make it clear:

  •   There is an obligation not to stand idly by when one's brother's blood is being spilt, "Do not stand on the blood of your friend!" One has to take action.
  •   According to the Talmud - a sexual crime is akin to murder! Indeed, sexual crimes often lead to the suicide and death of the victim.
  •   In halachik parlance - the perpetrator has the law of a "pursuer" a rodef - and every possible means must be taken to ensure that he is stopped
  •   From a halachik perspective it is imperative that any sexual abuse whatsoever be reported to the appropriate authorities - police, DOCS, etc/ There is no prohibition whatsoever against reporting to secular authorities matters which involve danger to life and limb

On behalf of the Rebbetzin and all of us at South Head, I wish you and your family a Good & Peaceful Shabbos.

Rabbi Benzion Milecki OAM


JLI
Pain, Pleasure and the Purpose of Life

  • Is there any value to the life of a child who dies before she has accomplished anything?
  • Is there meaning to pain and suffering or is it just a case of bad luck?
  • The Ancient Greeks said, "Eat, Drink and be Merry for tomorrow we die". Do we Jews subscribe to this view - after all, we do quite a bit of eating and drinking ourselves?
  • Is Judaism pro-Science or does it view science as a necessary evil?
  • What does Judaism offer a person well-versed in the sciences, literature and philosophy?

These very questions were the subject of debates between Jewish Sages and Greek Philosophers two thousand years ago and this week's Lesson looked at their relevance to our lives today.


Brookie Reports
Registration Open!

It's great to see registrations already flowing in for Camp Shalom Winter Camp scheduled for the first week of July.

There are some fantastic new excursions and as always great activities all led by the friendliest and most capable youth leaders in town. Full details below...

Next week sees our first Bless the Kids for this year so that's super exciting! 

Wishing you all a Good Shabbos and looking forward to seeing you in Shule!

Brookie and the Youth Crew


Bless the Kids


Next Shabbat - June 1st from 10.15am Receive a blessing from the Rabbi as well as a special treat and make your own edible tzitzit

Children aged 0 - 10 come and be part of our wonderful tradition.


Camp Shalom
Register Now!

• Xtreme Playzone • Kidsportz

• Marian Street Theatre

• Acquatic Centre • Urban Jungle

Does this sound like you? Then hurry and register because places are filling fast. Camp Shalom is regularly booked out so don't you miss out!

Register online - click here or call Brookie 0404 055 643


Parasha Sheet
Behalotcha

* Aharon is given the important Mitzvah of lighting the Menorah every morning and every night.

* The Levite tribe is initiated into its service in the Mishkan.

* The Jewish people offer the Pesach sacrifice on the first anniversary of the Exodus of Egypt.

* Pesach Sheini, 'the Second Passover' is instituted.

* Quail rains down from the heavens for one month.

* Miriam is punished with Tzara'at for speaking Lashon Hara about Moshe to their brother Aharon. 

To learn about the Parasha in more detail, download our Parasha sheet! 

Please share our Parasha sheet around your Shabbat table and let your family and friends explore the Parasha of the week together with you. 

 


 


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Communal Events
 
  

This Week
Erev Shabbos, May 24 (Sivan 15)
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Monday, May 27 (Sivan 18)
 - Thursday, May 30 (Sivan 21)
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Mazeltovs /
Announcements


Mazal Tov to Leon & Alicia Kawalsky and Dr Jeff & Carol Brown on the forthcoming wedding of Robert & Leanne; Aufruf this Shabbat at SouthHead. Mazal Tov also to grandparents Ivan Price, Zelda Brown and Abe & Lorna Bloom.

Mazal Tov to Darren & Samantha Krug on the birth of a son on May 17th; and to Grandparents Jeff Krug, Jenny Mandel, Alex & Michelle Fardoulis and great grandparents Issy & Cilla Den, Molly Krug and Sonia Goldberg.

Mazal Tov to Jeremy & Riva Hayman and Neil & Melanie Kagan on the engagement of their children Ilan & Gabi in Melbourne; and to grandparents Hymie & Luba Hayman, Grace Marson and Linda Kagan.

Condolences to Fred Ginsberg & family on the passing of his mother Sylvia Ginsberg on May 20th /11 Sivan

 

Happy Jewish Birthday to...
Friday
Celina DiVeroli
Evelyn Gareb
Gavriel Maynard
Gemma Wainstein
Gregory Ellerine
Ilan Hayman
Jonathan Gamerov
Linda Katz
Lindi Falkoff
Mia Hill
Michael Mayer
Pauline Rosenberg
Pearl Bermeister
Sara-Bella Rottenstein
Vivienne Morris

Shabbos
Joshua Ehrlich

Sunday
David Miller
Max Fisher
Miriam Levy
Samuel Morris
Simone Brener

Monday
Alan Adno
Alina Goldberg
Ariel Sher
Daniella Mirels
Larry Uria
Leah Wolf
Ryan Mayer
Shayna Wolman
Taila Eskin

Tuesday
Debbie Blumenthal
Gina Cohen
Jonah Shabtay
Marilyn Woolf
Ricky Herbert
Sean Tolkin

Wednesday
Aidan Nash
Allie Silverton
Emily Miller
Hanan Bouskila
Sandra Lurie

Thursday
Alon Pajor
Henry Weinreich
Jack Burman
Linda Bermeister
Rachel Barda
Russell Benda
Suzy Cohen
We wish "long life" to...
Friday
David Manne for father Elias Manne
Jacqui Blank for grandmother Golda Ostroff
Julius Rubin for father Wolf Rubin
Ron Zucker for mother Chuma Zucker

Shabbos
Beate Stricker for father Berl Benno Bratt
Eve Friedman for father Bernard Morris
Michelle Mekler- Peled for grandfather Abraham Katz
Simonne Mekler for grandfather Abraham Katz
Susan Chonowitz for mother Zelda Rosenmeyer

Sunday
Alan Adno for father Jack Adno
Carol Skovron for mother Melanie Koenig
Jacqui Chilchik for father Basil Hart
Katherine Miller for father Gerhard Schuck
Miriam Sonnenschein for brother Woolf Baltstein

Monday
Leonard Kaplan for father Beni Kaplan
Michael Wyner for mother Margit Weininger
Susan Lechem for mother Sigrid Hochfeld

Tuesday
Norman Abel for mother Sylvia Abelowitz
Syd Lonstein for mother Rosa Lonstein

Wednesday
Hazel Schulman for father Sidney Oblowitz
Sander Becker for father Lemmie Becker

Thursday
Robert Krochmalik for mother Rose Krochmalik


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