Gratitude - A Real Life-Changer!
07/10/2016 10:15:07 AM
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![]() Gratitude - A Real Life-Changer! Why do we blow Shofar on Rosh Hashanah? Immediately after his “birth” on that very first Rosh Hashanah, Adam gathered all his fellow creatures and said to them “Let us give thanks to G-d and crown Him as King of the Universe.” He then sounded the Shofar and proclaimed, “Come, let us bow down, let us prostrate ourselves before G-d Who made us!” It turns out that the very first mitzvah performed by a human being was an expression of gratitude to the One who gave him life. What was the very first sin? So what was the first real sin - the first sin that Adam did have a choice over? Soon after Adam ate of the forbidden fruit on Rosh Hashanah Adam is confronted by G-d as to why he ate of the Tree of Knowledge. He replied, “It’s not my fault, the woman who YOU gave me caused me to sin!” G-d had graciously given him Eve as partner to alleviate his loneliness. Not only does Adam not express appreciation for the beautiful gift. He turns the gift on its head, claiming that it is the source of all his sorrows. You know the story: So the first mitzvah in the Torah is gratitude, and the first sin of the Torah is ingratitude. And both occurred on Rosh Hashanah! I am devoting today’s sermon to a man who I believe epitomised gratitude - my late father, alav hashalom. Dad - The Early Days Everyone’s father is of course special to them. He is the person, together with our mothers, to whom we owe our very physical existence. They are the ones who sacrificed so that we could be who we are today. They are the ones who when we were very young we aspired to be like. They are also the ones who, as we were growing up and began forging our own identities, we often had conflicts with. And they are the ones who more often than not, we don’t express our gratitude to. Well today I want to express my gratitude to dad for teaching me the meaning of faith and for teaching me the meaning of gratitude. My dad spent the first ten years of his life in Poland. He didn’t like talking about it - he was born into the great poverty that followed the first world war and grew up during the depression. His father left Poland when he was three years old, sailing to far-away Australia, so he could earn money and send it back to the family in Poland. Dad didn’t see him again until he was 11 years old when, together with his older siblings, he joined his father after the untimely passing of his mother in Poland. Dad would tell me that for the first years of his life he had no father and for the rest of his life he had no mother. He had no recollection of his father and mother together. The only positive memories I ever heard from my dad about life in Poland was his description of how he and his older brother Velvel would carry the pot of chollent to the local baker’s oven on Friday and retrieve it on Shabbos. He also had very fond memories of a favourite Uncle Benzion, his mother’s brother, who he loved dearly. It was after him that I was named. Dad never had a bar-mitzvah - his father couldn’t afford it. But Yiddish was his mama loshon and he could read Hebrew slowly with a Poilische accent. When we were growing up, dad made kiddush Friday night and mum kept a kosher home. Dad made an effort to walk to shule on Yom Kippur - although it was many miles away from our home in Preston. He was also a staunch labour Zionist - as so many of Melbourne’s Polish Jews were - and our parents instilled in us a love for Israel. But apart from that, dad wasn’t religious. Because of the family’s abject poverty even here in Australia, dad couldn’t finish school. But he was always inquisitive and in his youth had a passion for understanding electricity and technology. I believe that it was because of his love of technology, instilled in me from a very young age, that I became so fascinated by science. More than anything dad, like so many of his generation, wanted me to have what he didn’t - a decent profession. You can therefore imagine his bitter upset when I decided to go to Yeshiva for a year, and then the year became two and then many more years. In the seventies for an Australian kid to become religious and go off to Yeshiva was almost unheard of. Although I didn’t appreciate it at the time, I later realised that dad was worried that I wouldn’t be able to make a living as a Rabbi. Well, I made a living, but I can’t but agree with him that becoming a Rabbi is not a job for a Jewish boy. There are easier ways of making a living. Read More ![]() Rembrandt and Moses In early September I went for Shabbos morning service in New York to Shearith Israel, the Spanish and Portuguese Synagogue. The senior rabbi, Meir Soloveichik, in lieu of a sermon delivered a lecture at the end of the service on the famous Rembrandt painting of 1659, Moses Breaking the Tablets of the Law, in Berlin’s Gemäldegalerie; he was scheduled to give the same talk the next day at a conference on Rembrandt and the Jews at the Yeshiva University Museum. He argues that the painting has been misunderstood. Here I summarise his arguments. (Rabbi Soloveichik is also a professor at Yeshiva University. He is a great-nephew of the Rav and was rumoured to be a candidate to succeed Jonathan Sacks as chief rabbi. He is 39 years old.) Read More Kiddush Sponsor Blau & Shine Families This weeks Friday night Kiddush has been kindly co-sponsored by Robbie & Lauren Blau in commemoration of Robbie's father's yahrtzeit, and by Adrian & Sue Shine. If you would like to sponsor a Kiddush in honour of a Simcha, Birthday or a Yahrtzeit please contact Shmuly on 0401 558 223 or shmuly@southhead.org. ![]() Shana Tova! What a start to the new year! But the fun has only just begun. We can’t wait to show you whats in store for Yom Kippur! Starting 7pm on Tuesday evening and resuming at 11am on Wednesday morning you are sure to have the YOM KIPPUR OF A LIFETIME at South Head Youth. Featuring a never seen before YOM KIPPUR ESCAPE ROOM plus much more, you don’t want to miss out. Did you mange to collect all the Tishrei Go cards!? It's not to late. Shabbat Shalom and Gmar Tov from the entire South Head Youth Crew. See you at Children's Service! P.S Don’t forget to register your Tishrei Go cards online to gain entry into the grand raffle! https://www.southhead.org/form/tishreigo.html For all information on upcoming youth events please contact us on 9371 7300 ext 3 or 0432 876 770 or youth@southhead.org The Unforgotten Jew Rabbi Mendel Nemes
Parasha Sheet Parashat Vayeilech & Yom Kippur
A. The Gemara (Berachot 18a) says “The righteous are considered to be alive, in a spiritual sense, even after death.” Moshe was alluding to this concept. Thus, he said to them that though he would live eternally, he was speaking of his experience of when “odeni chai imachem” — “I am physically alive together with you.” Read More |
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